Approach a sensitive senior-living conversation with respect, preparation and room for the older adult’s priorities.
Start early
Begin before a crisis when there is time to explore options. Ask what is becoming difficult and what would make daily life easier.
Listen for the real concern
Resistance may be about losing independence, money, pets, privacy or leaving a familiar neighbourhood. Address the specific concern instead of arguing.
Offer choices
Tour several Edmonton-area options and involve the older adult in deciding location, suite, services and timing whenever possible.
Questions to ask next
- What is currently available?
- What is included in the monthly fee?
- Can the community support current and likely future needs?
- Who should the family contact for written details?
Services, pricing and availability can change. Confirm important information directly with each provider and seek appropriate professional advice.